You are walking down the street and you spot a nice, good looking girl with a decent and polite smile walk by, and you think to yourself, "This is the kindda girl that I wanna marry. She isn't having even a single ounce of malice on her..." . This is called "THE HALO EFFECT". We see someone "seemingly nice" and we associate them to goodness. (and let me assure you, this is a very dangerous assumption).
Many a times, when we are with someone (which can be anyone, a friend, a spouse etc) we do stuff that we know isn't right, but we continue doing it just for the thrill and excitment it provide. And after its done, many times what follows is the shame of doing it. Only to end up doing it all over again with the same person... When we were kids these kinds of activities
were considered normal, but being an adult and knowing that we can't afford this behaviour, we eventually start to thinking that something is wrong with us. But why do we always have to associate this sinister behaviour with us, why not that "other" person...??? After-all its being with them that causes us to go crazy (althought in an exciting and thrilling way). And this whole scenario causes us to think, what is the root cause of this mess ??? and more importantly-
Is it us...or them ???
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yea ive faced that before.. i think its true in many peoples cases, if not all
Humm, Interesting.. good topic bro. We’ll keep visiting ur blog
Thanks,
Well hav u evr heard of beauty falling on beast? lol... yup it happns with us but i tell u its of immense visual comfort until ur emotions r too unruly :)
are we talking abt auras here?
Beauty taken for Goodness..That is worst mentality V Humans Face...
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