About a month or so earlier i met a girl and before either one
of us could figure out, we became "GOOD FRIENDS". I had some of
the best times with her. We use to go exploring new places almost everyday. Now she's gone, and no denying of the fact that i miss her a lot. To avoid thinking about her, i decided to hang out with two of my best friends, which led to one of them telling me ,and i quote, "People meet and people depart." (Evidently, i need to acknowledge the fact, forget about her and move on).This whole situation, has caused me to try to explore the very
reason, why the only answer to a loss is to remove all the old
memories that remind us of it. Why is "Moving on", so important ???
(Speaking of general a senerio) People meet, fall in
love and in most cases split up. Break ups are painful, ask
your friends and they’ll tell you to pick up a new hobby, go
out, and keep your self busy, clichés like that. But the main
act of trying to have a partner and not being able to, leave us
all with millions of memories.Some good, some bad... and to think of erasing these memories
after being unsuccessful seems to mock the very essence of all
the good times two people had share. Only to end up dating again (and repeating the whole cycle of make and break).Which begs the question, why do we need to fake an emotional heal up only to get hurt again...???
And more importantly,
Whats it all worth ???
6 comments:
nice read!!
I know exactly what you are going through. All I can say is just keep urself busy to prevent those thoughts from getting back to you.
hey went throught the above cycle and now preparing to do it again . but nice one to read but i think its worth coz of good memories
you know it is definitely worth it.. moving on doesnt mean forgetting and erasing the memories, it means only that you accept that some things werent meant to be, those memories are the part of your life, no matter if they were good or bad... they just are, exactly like fights with your best friend or falling down from a tree when you were a child... they keep us alive and prevent from doing the same mistakes again and again... :)
People say time heals but thats not like that, you heal yourself when you realise the worthiness of the previous relationship and are ready to accept that some things are just not meant to be... :)
Hope i didnt bother too much, just came across your blog :)
At first read one might say what a nice memories you have to cherish with...
Seriously reading this was like a nostalgia...
May be of the school days and all..
but wait...
I came to know from my other good friend that this not any happy-going-school-days stuff...
You met a girl when you were doing your intern training and then she went back to her place as usual since the training was over. And that's it...
Let me guess the friggin moral of the story...
"Business Over, Game Over"
comeon man!! u are 20 years old, and u sound like someone who's lost the love of his life..ur life has just begun, but it sounds like that ya have already lost the battle. Buck up man..look out of the window..there are so many hot and sexy girls waiting for u..shouting out..AMAR where are u???
and besides the whole idea of a single girl is kinda lame...one should keep on changing...so that u keep up with the changing trends!! ;-)
As far as i knw u i must say dnt listen to any one jus follow ur heart...Y to move on distance makes heart grow fonder.....Its easy to say forget&move on but difficult to do...Cherish those sweet memories...Cheer up....
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